{"id":111,"date":"2025-07-24T16:56:29","date_gmt":"2025-07-24T16:56:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.antiparentalalienation.com\/?page_id=111"},"modified":"2025-07-27T20:42:33","modified_gmt":"2025-07-27T20:42:33","slug":"doodle-pad","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/www.antiparentalalienation.com\/?page_id=111","title":{"rendered":"doodle-pad"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>make footer smaller<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>check UM templates &amp; customise 80%: Decide on user access levels, who sees what and when<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>make sure math captcha is working<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>link up back-end (email-issue a few [not many]  &amp; check)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>do madis accounts (child, parent, both, maybe grandparent, spouse, admin &amp; editor, maybe moderator if actually adding simple forum example) by 8th<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>===<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Add forum &amp; design simple example categories (Groups we like, organisations we have relationships with, other channels\/websites\/groups, emergency helplines, members stories, help by country &amp; region, can the law help me? Volunteer positions very vacant, lots more no doubt)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>show madi voice chat rooms, discuss options pros &amp; cons<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>====<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>covered?: Links to all other social media &amp; one place for the most recent content across them all (can&#8217;t do until on AAP [from APA] )<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Fall=Autumn 2025: build a team &#8211; charity\/legal entity, volunteer accountant, reseach secretarial (not minor role&#8211;&gt; far from it!!), IT help, fundraising, partnerships, legal, campaigning, platform specific consultants\/advisors, managing content queue, editing, scripting, moderating forums, evaluating<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Madi&#8217;s personal goals (as at 1 month ago)<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Ask about madi&#8217;s direction &amp; healing &#8211; I think hosting\/talking to 20 others could speed healing (see video below, being believed &amp; believing yourself that you are believed needs repetition &#8211; the more the better<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yes, get to children ( PA term itself helpful vs yes, they have all the definitions needed NOW (I feel your frustration) but what&#8217;s the plan, what age &#8211; wait until college campus? want to get earlier then will need teachers, which means society change (see much below) BUT that can be got to younger children if grandparents &amp; parents know of that term (who-ever, if any, has contact)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">for system change<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>This is a conversation that has to be had at a whole other level. I have PTSD not from my ex, but from how the system &#8220;failed&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I have 20 years experience in this &amp; I can&#8217;t talk about it fully except in a secure environment (teamspeak &amp; phones out of the room, not simply off). This will do to get you half-way there, and I will try to reach out to Maggie &#8211; she is not naiive through years of experience, i&#8217;ve only got to her level in the last 3 years I guess ( I wasted 12-17 years !)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So Maggie has covered a lot of the things I know you don&#8217;t know.  Please only watch with support, WITH you dad or husband, not in earshot of children !!!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Grooming Gang Survivor Tells Her Story\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/ooak7d8EwQM?start=2686&#038;feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Judicial review\/ <strong>Action for accountability<\/strong> &#8211; misconduct in public office. &amp; <a href=\"https:\/\/find-and-update.company-information.service.gov.uk\/company\/12057773\/officers\">https:\/\/find-and-update.company-information.service.gov.uk\/company\/12057773\/officers<\/a>  Maggie oliver (foundation &#8211; hard to contact, lots of company dissolutions)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Madi&#8217;s personal goals (as at 1 month ago) Ask about madi&#8217;s direction &amp; 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